Single and Developed

At first, I thought this message was for African American women 18 to 35. But this message resonates to all women every race and any age. Strong women do not sit around and wait for their mate. God did not create you primarily for a relationship He created you for purpose. And purpose is something that is giving to all of us while we are in our mother’s womb. While we are living our purpose, someone comes into our lives weather its for friendship or a relationship with intent to marry. There is nothing wrong with wanting to be married, but its not in the cards for everybody. It is okay being single some are very content. But the world has a way of making you feel uncomfortable as If something is wrong and strange about you. Maybe you are not obsessed with your sexuality, not running after every man that try to talk to you in the street. Or get all hot and bothered because he texts you good morning gorgeous.

Find your purpose and get your own identity. Then get the mate that share similar interest when you both were single. Women need to understand that we can only control us. In relationships we cannot control our mate we can only control us and what we do. It never works out if you are doing your part and they are not doing theirs.

That is why when you are single waiting on a man, you say to yourself I am getting too old I want kids. Start working on you be a master at being single. Self-develop your strengths because when he shows up and God put you two together, he will recognize you as his wife. That is why some men say I knew you was my wife when I met you. Just like Adam recognize Eve as his wife because he saw a female virgin of him.

So be busy about your goals, ambition, and your purpose. So, while you are developing, your mate is somewhere developing also. Then at some appointed time God will bring the both of you together.

Are you where you should be right now? have you grown and reached your potential? Start working on you. How about your education go back to school finish that degree you been meaning to finish? What about your credit score is it 600 and below start working on your credit? How about your physical health are you at your goal wait? Look at yourself in the mirror, do you like what you see. Are you suffering from childhood trauma? Were you abused or abandoned as a child? How about toxic relationship issues? Work on it before you start a new relationship because if you bring it to the new relationship you will abuse your mate while you are trying to heal from the trauma of the last relationship. If you think about it, you are not emotionally ready because you are still crying from that toxic sold tie. Maybe your Dad was not in your life. So, you will hold on to this man because you missed out on a relationship with your father.

Do you have a relationship with God? Because he will fill that void or emptiness. So that when the wrong person comes along you will not have any room for toxic energy. Because God has filled that space to the compactly.

Are you financially stable? Because we live in a time now where men and women should equally bring their finances to the table. Men love a woman that can take care of herself. If you depend on him to take care of you and he one day leave this world, how are you going to get your money right. Wisdom and money are your defense.

Published by Coach Lady Lea

Darlene is a Certified Professional Life Coach with years of experience and skills in the field, bringing to the table a mixed set of skills and experience coaching in self-love and relationships. Darlene is a graduate who grew up in a sheltered household, religious parents, which has paved the way to learn more about life through trial and error. Having specialized in information systems, she acquired her coach training in different areas of profession and now, fully ready to guide others in life choices, while believing that we were born to manifest the glory of God that is within us. Drawing on her experiences since inception, she also coaches executives and entrepreneurs, focusing on high-tech and early-stage startup companies, which enabled her to develop and evolve her competencies in leadership, sales, and client relations. Possessing a natural curiosity and passion for technology, Darlene transitioned into a role and advanced her skills in strategic thinking, communication, and client management. A genuine passion for personal & professional development and human potential led Darlene to her role as a Certified Professional Life Coach, starting as Coach Specialist. This experience has given Darlene unique insight into the world of professional coaching, providing her with an invaluable skill set and an educated eye in effortlessly identifying the traits and competencies .that make for highly effective coaching partnerships, and as a result, helping medium to large organizations elevate their bottom line through performance-enhancing initiatives. Make an appointment with Darlene! You won't find anyone with more passion or experience! Darlene is going to do everything that we can to make you happy! Take the chance to grow and prosper, and by doing so, extend your viewpoint off-limits! Contact Darlene today then if you need any further assistance on any issues. Please send an email and state your interests in the subject line, referencing what you need help with. I will love to hear from you, so get in touch.

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