I used to think confidence meant you were a beautiful woman. As long as you look good you was able to get the man of your dreams, or least the man that’s to your liking, who was a little eye candy. But I found out that you could be beautiful, nice body, lovely hair and skin. You looking like a million bucks, and he still left. Why you asked? It’s because in his eyes you lack confidence. By that I mean you are very clingy. They don’t like a women that never give them room to breathe. You always want to be around them when they want time to themselves. Just like we as women want some me time, they want the same thing. Never chase a man into wanting you. They are the hunters this is what they are built for. You running after them is a big turnoff for them. Not letting them lead as the man in the relationship is also a turnoff. One thing they won’t put up with is a busy body for a woman. A woman that never have any ideas on anything, very indecisive about everything is another turnoff. All of these things tell them that you are insecure and have low self-esteem.
But when you walk into a room as a CEO woman,your confidence is so loud that they can’t help but stare in your direction. You’re walking with your head held high your hips swaying from side to side and a smile that would melt any mans heart and also speaking in that soft tone that would make any man wonder where in the world she came from. You know what you want and know how to achieve any goal you sort after. For the most part you are independent and self-efficient. because your mother taught you how to be a women with values, standards, and foundational beliefs. So when that man sees you he won’t have to wonder if you are that fine gem, he will know.