There are a couple of ways to get into a mans heart. When you meet each other you both are attractive and you both want to date. Now what? First of all, don’t cater to a man, you are just dating. Your just dating. You are not in a relationship. When you met him he was not single. A man is never single. He has some woman that’s is go to. When he finds that woman he wants to lock down, then and only then will he tell her it’s over between them. So never take them at face value. Stop believing what he says, and pay attention to what he does. Stop thinking you have to show him your wife material. The minute you start cooking for him, washing his clothes, giving him money to invest in his ideas that he had for ten years, you drop what your doing when he calls. You have just created your own downfall. Less is more. The less you do for him the more he will do for you.
If you want to pierce his heart. Start loving yourself. Do your hair, makeup, go shopping, take yourself out on a date. Stop waiting for someone to cater to you. Cater to yourself. Once he see that you put yourself first, he will find a way to fit into your life. Stop always being available. When he calls you and ask what your doing tonight, don’t drop what your doing. He needs to plan a date with you intentionally. You shouldn’t feel like an option.
Don’t think you have to sleep with him because you are dating. Because three to six months into dating you may find that he is not what you expect. Then you can easily walk away because you wouldn’t have a strong soul-tie with him. When he see your not to be played with, then he will make the decision to ask you to be exclusive with him. He will see you as a rarity. And won’t let you slip away from him. He may even be ready to marry you. So just remember less is more. The less you do the more he will do for you.