Why do we always pick the man, that will eventually break us? Why do we want that bad boy? Why are we drawn to toxicity? Why do we want that drug dealer? Why are we selling drugs? Why do we want a older man? Why are you a High School dropout? Why are you a teenage mother? Why you not working? why are you on the stripper pole? Endless questions of why we chose the wrong path in life.
Sometimes in order to get to the why, we need to look back at our generation. Grandma had to do what she must do to feed 10 kids. That may be staying in a toxic relationship just so the kids would eat. She has no education and neither do any of the kids. And grandpa was a ladies man in the neighborhood. Drug dealing ,number running toxic man. When he came home there was always drunken fights. And the Police was constantly called to the residence. So now your mother thinks this is how we suppose to live. Because growing up she only experience toxicity. So now its your turn to experience life. The only problem is you didn’t have your mother to teach you because Grandma didn’t teach her. Grandma didn’t have anyone to teach her. So it goes on and on and on until someone says STOP! ENOUGH IS ENOUGH! Break the generation curse.
In order to solve the issue, you must first identify what the root of issue is. Then you can put a plan in place to get to the root and weed it out . Once you do that through educating yourself you then will begin to heal and eventually break that curse before it ruins another generation.
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